Really heart breaking to read stories like this:
MORE than anything, John and Adriana Roldan love each other and their two little boys, Brandon, 5, and Samuel, 1. And so now that Mr. Roldan, a mechanic and a building superintendent and a New Jersey National Guardsman, has been deployed to Iraq for the second time in three years, he and his wife will start lying to each other again, just as they lied their way through his first Iraq tour.
That first time, Mr. Roldan told Mrs. Roldan that as a mechanic, he never left the base in Iraq.
Full story: Guard Families Fight War of Their Own